ESQ 165!I'm loving it..

Last night,I went to Alson Klana attending a night preview of ESQ..have you heard about it??

Most of my family was participating..it was the first ESQ team to be in Negeri Sembilan lead by Pak Ari Ginanjar Agustian,Author of bestseller Book,ESQ power..

I was stunned as I hear the speech delivered by Pak Firdaus,according to him,ESQ balances the spiritual.emotional, and intellectual aptitude and attitude.Its fits nicely in the total training philosophy of interfacing work, life and learning.

I'm truly impressed on the way they attract people on the 3 days training..the important 3s which is Senyum symmetry,Salam Semut and Sahabat Sejati..

Although I'm not participating on the training,actually the training is for the adults but the 2 hour preview last night is enough to make me amazed.

We as human needed to balance our IQ,EQ and SQ,Let us compare this three situation,

1)Ahmad was an intellegent businessman who had 4000 workers under him.Obviously,he really good in trade but he was hated by his own workers by his rude manners,he is lack of the emotional quotients,I supposed,right?

Using the same example,just making it easier,
2)Ahmad was an intellegent businessman who had 4000 workers under him.Not only he is a brilliant bv he also have a good social relation with his workers.He really put his full effort on his employee's right making him to be a person with full respect but the thing is he didn't know the meaning of life what related with our spiritual quotient..And it end with just being a manipulator who manipulated others for its own purpose,wana'uzubillah..
3)Do I need to give example..(JK.)I think you can predict it,right?
when we us the three quotient balancely,there is when we will become 'khaira ummah' as what is stated in the Quran,

But the question is what will be the main core?is it IQ or EQ or SQ?

The answer is in the Quran..

'And from wheresover you start forth(for prayers),turn your face in the direction of Al-Masjid-Al-Haram(at Makkah),and wheresover you are,turn your faces towards it sn that men may have no argument against you except those of them that are wrong-doers,so fear them not,but fear Me!-And so that I may complete My Blessings on you and that you may be guided.
(Al-Baqarah:150)

Everything we've done will never be hidden from Allah..and Al-Quran is the best medicine for our soul..and that makes SQ the importance..but doesn't mean that we have to ignore our IQ and EQ,it just that we have to develop our SQ in order to help maintaining our IQ and EQ because when we knew the meaning of life,that is when we can answer this following questions:
who I am?
Where am I?
What I do now?
Where I am in the next?

For instant, what happen in one of a country in USA,California which is known as a country which high in sociality and intelect..most of the best universities is there with all the brilliant lecturers and students,when we talk about english movies,remind us about Hollywood,yes,until now,Hollywood did conquer the world including Malaysia..We also have heard about Bevearly Hills right?who is fond with the 'totally Spies may knew abov that famous place..but the point is do you know what really happen over a decade back in California?
More than 4000 people was comitting in a suicide..on the bridge..until the only solution made by its government was placing public phones along the bridge in order to give the hopeless humans to make a conselling before they decide to throw themselves below the river..can you imagine it?

If we recall the story of Musa in his searching for Lord on the Mount of Tur for about 40 days.

'Then when Musa had fulfilled the term and was travelling with his family,he saw a fire in the direction of Tur(Mount).He said to his family:'Wait,I have seen a fire,perhaps I may bring you from there some information,or a burning fire-brand that you may warm yourselves.So when he reached it(the fire),he was called from the right side of the valley,in the blessed place,from the tree:'O Musa!Verily I am Allah,the Lord of the Alamin(mankind,jinn and all that exists)!
Al-Qasas:29-30

And when Allah revealed His power by destroying the Mount of Tur and that is when Musa believe and the only words flew from his mouth that time was 'La ila ha illallah'.And how about 5 years taken by our prophet searching for the real meaning of life up in Gua Hira' making him away from the Jahiliah until one day when came down the first 5 sentences in Al-alaq,

'Read! in the Name of your Lord Who has created(all that exists.He has created man from a clot(a piece of thick coagulated blood).Read!and your Lord is the Most Generous.Who has taught(the writing) by the pen.He has taught man that which he knew NOT!.


But what captured my heart that time was a question,
'How many years have you use in searching the true meaning of life?or we just become a manipulator to ourselves,preoccupied by the play of the world without realize that time run fast every and each moment,when the time comes,we all will face ALLAH..

That was ESQ is all about..1 ehsan,6 pillars in Iman,5 pillars in Islam..

I wish to join the Mahasiswa team soon..Ameen..

Seeing all my family after their training really motivate me most.What is the speciality of this course,it is not only for muslims but to all religions as I was shock to see Billy Lim,author of 'Dare to fail' as one of the alumni,

Do visit www.esq.com,

Wallahua'lam..

My precious moment..dear tahfizians.

Time past,my friends...but the sweet memories will never ends..

Remember,my friends?
when we are in primary 6 preparing for our PSR,I was sitting on my chair in 2A class adoring the ITQSHHB just behind our school(SPA)..What was I'm thinking that time was I'm going to be there one day!I can see people wearing jubah from just outside my window and what I'm thinking that time was that I'm going to wear it one day!
it was at the musolla when I overheard someone talking to a friend that how anxious she was to continue her study in tahfiz..and that time i thought to myself..ili,we will met there!(to tell you that 'someone' is ili!haha)

Remember my friends?
When we went for the enterview, we were just like on a war,all of us was trying to do the best,try to memorize one page that was given to us in half an hour time..I met Ili,she was sitting beside me waiting to be examine..she seems to have memorize the whole page,I can see the way she struggle on it..She read it loud and clear,one way for easier memorizing..looking at her makes me motivated to memorize my page.(thanks li..)

Remember my friends?when we were chosen to be part of the tahfizians,we were at the hall(I still love their sit..),we were given a talk about our progress in the tahfiz,do you know why I choose the word chosen?because we are chosen from hudreds of people went for the interview..the real is we are chosen by Allah to be there..I remember that time,our parents was the one that having the joy to see their sons and daughters not only to continue their study but also was given the oppurtinity to memorize the Quran,our precious book.

Remember my friend?
During our orientation week,we were playing a game of i-forgot-the-name,but that game really make me know a bit about you all,my friends..

Remember my friends?
The song that we sang(actually the song we heard..LOL)during our orientation sang beautifully by our seniors,

' Sesegar hijau daunan,begitulah kita diibaratkan,tiada siapa yang bisa memisahkan kita, antara kita semua..'

And I mean it..love having you as my friends..

Do you remember my friends,the first week living in tahfiz was taugh for some of us,never been away from our family,ya!that was my first experience living in a hostel(although our hostel seems to be like a hotel!)but still I'm homesick..:-)

But why I called it my precious moment because,it is in the tahfiz I first learnt to be an independent person..
It is in the tahfiz that I realize friends were everything(since we were 24 hours around them)but it didn't mean we have left our family behind,it just that we have added our family..ya,friends is like our family too..
It is in the tahfiz, I first learn about love and friendship..

I learn about the importants of co-operation and the meaning of giving not wanting..u know what I mean?when it comes to a birthday,none of us will be left behind to be wish..I learn that it is not the presents or how much it cost that makes ones happy,its how they remembered you as a friend.

Remember my friends,we were at our class,14 of us were sitting in a circle (we always done it..right,my friend?)We let out all the disatisfication that messing our mind that time to others,I learn that time the important of always listen and understanding especially our beloved friends...

14 is not a large number,36 is not enough too but how many of us isn't the importance as long we stick in a bond name ukhwah,we will always be a big happy family..

Do you know my friends?
when I left the tahfiz,at the end of our second year,I really didn't have any chance to meet all of you..I just met hanan and gmah,really,my friends,I didn't expect that it will be the last time for me in the TP,but I know Allah knows the best..

Do you know my friends,I was overjoy when I receive a letter from you all after a month i'm in Malaysia..

I still remember that you told me to send pictures and letters to all of you but I didnt make it,sorry my friends..

It is in the tahfiz
that I realize how lucky I am to memorize the Quran and making it part of my life now..

Now,when I'm studying in Dq,I met my friends AGAIN..i realize how thankful should I be to Allah..Alhamdulillah..He will never neglect our will,
QURAN unite us,
QURAN also re-unite us..

Now,we all have taken our path to success in our life but all I hope is our Quran is still in our heart just like our friendship..remember my friends..
We put our life and hope in order to live as a tahfizians,memorizhng the Quran,do you wish to left it away now?Remember,
we memorize it and it is us to keep it and work with it..

It is a waste,if the knowledge we knew,we didn't use it wisely,right,my friends?I remind myself first and then you to never left the quran behind..

I hope one day,when I pay a visit to Brunei,I really want to see the profesionals that make the Quran part of their life..continueing in memorize and understand the real meaning of the magic phrases in the Quran..

I really hope to see you all again,brothers and sisters..Amin..

AZEM-JABBAR-AIZAT-ZIZIL-SAIFULLAH-FAIZAL-HANIS-NASYITH-SUFI-IRMA-ZAKIRIN-IMAN-SAUFI-NAZRI-ZULKHAIRI-YADI-LUQMAN-MALKAN-AMAL-RUSYDEE-HAFIZ-RIZU-ILI-RAIHANA-HANIM-ZAEMAH-JEERAH-ASHILA-HANAN-QIBAH-EZZATI-MIDAH-KHUZAIMAH-GMAH-KA FARAH
Did I forget someone?(giggles..)

Ukhwah fillah!!